Let me be upfront. Given how this article started, GraceLash had everything against it.
You've probably never heard of it. Not at Macy's, not on Amazon. One small brand — exactly the kind of story the ads I'm tired of are built on. I only tested it because an old TV colleague showed up wearing it, and her lashes looked like HERS again.
Here's what nobody tells you: most tubing tubes are empty.
A hollow tube dries thin down your lash, like wet paint running down a wall. Longer, but wispier. That's Thrive, Prime and the Maybelline in one sentence.
GraceLash fills the tube. With Brazilian Ceará Carnauba — the hardest natural wax on earth.
A filled tube wraps thick around the lash instead of stretching thin along it. A hollow tube can only lengthen. A filled tube builds. On the fifteen fine, pale lashes menopause left me, that's the difference between "longer" and finally visible. And because carnauba is that hard, a trace does the work of a heavy coat — no weight, curl holds all day.
Bonus: the hardest wax on earth doesn't melt in lid oil. My daughter got married in Florida in June. I cried through the ceremony. The photos came back perfect.
Why it won: it's the only one that never asks you to compromise.
Every other tube here works on a trade. Thrive removes beautifully but only lengthens. Tarte dries out, flakes, and needs micellar. Prime clumps and grips your lashes at the sink. Maybelline costs $13 and behaves like it. You picked a flaw you could live with — and forgot you picked it.
GraceLash: Four things, one tube.
1. Real volume. Not just length. The only filled tube on this list. Thicker at the base, darker across the line, visibly there from across the room. Volume is what our lashes actually lost. This is the only tube that gives it back.
2. Flexible tubes. So it never flakes. Those black specks by 4pm? Tubes that dried brittle and cracked off — some straight into your eyes. GraceLash keeps castor oil and Korean ginseng inside the tube, so it bends with every blink instead of snapping. Set, never hard.
3. Removal that's actually just warm water. Every box says it. One means it. A supple tube lets go; warm cloth, twenty seconds, tubes slide off whole. No fingers, no cleanser, not a single lash on the pad. At our age, every lash you scrub off takes months to come back — if it comes back at all.
4. The bonus: Lash Refill Complex. A peptide, biotin, castor oil, Korean ginseng — the four things menopause sends less of, fed back all day. Six weeks in, my lashes felt like more to work with. "Could be placebo. I'll take it."
The others do one or two of these. Nobody else does all four.
And rare for this category: tested on women over 60, not 25-year-olds. No BAK, no parabens. My sensitive, contact-wearing eyes haven't complained once in a year.
A Thrive or Tarte girl? Run my test: one on each eye, one day. By noon, one eye looks fuller. That's the entire argument — and it's free.
Almost a year in. Still my daily.
S≡ •≡ " </> 🔗 { } [+]Bought GraceLash three weeks ago after reading this. I'm 64. Used it every day since. My husband actually said my eyes look "brighter." He never notices ANYTHING lol. And the warm water removal. Not a single lash on the cotton pad. I nearly cried. Game changer.
I have very hooded eyes. Every mascara I've tried turns me into a raccoon by lunch. Migrates right onto the lid. I've thrown out at least 7 mascaras in the past 3 years. Is GraceLash actually different for hooded eyes? Scared to throw another $40 away.
Hi Patricia. I have hooded eyes too. Two things help here. The wand is smaller than the big fluffy brushes most brands use, so it doesn't dump product on your lid before reaching the lash. And the carnauba wax in the tubes doesn't melt in the oil on your lids, which is what smudging actually is. Nothing melts, nothing migrates onto your crease. The 60 day guarantee is what got me to try it. If it doesn't work for your eyes, you send it back. Nothing lost.
I have to push back a little Susan. I've worn Thrive for four years and I love it. Removal is gentle, never smudges on me. Are you saying I should switch even though I'm happy?
Hi Kathleen. No. If you love it, that counts for a lot, and Thrive's removal really is excellent, I said so in the review. I'd only ask you one question. When you look at your lash line straight on in daylight, is it FULL, or is it long? Thrive's tubes are hollow, so they can only ever do the second one. I wore it happily for years too, right up until I put a filled tube on one eye for a single day. That comparison is free. One day, two eyes. And GraceLash gives you 60 days to send it back. If your mirror says stay with Thrive, stay with Thrive. Mine had other ideas.
I grabbed the Maybelline Sky Tubes at the grocery store because $13, why not. Should have known. Clumped on the second coat and by dinner I had black bits on my cheeks AND one in my eye. The box literally says flake-proof?? Took an oil cleanser to get off too. Cheap isn't cheap if you throw it in the drawer after a week.
I've used the Tarte tubing for about a year and liked it, but lately it's not doing much for me. And I DO get those little specks by the end of the day, I thought it was my eyeliner. Is it worth switching or am I just chasing something that doesn't exist? I'm 61 and I'm tired of buying mascaras.
Hi Ellen. You're not imagining it, and those specks are not your eyeliner. Tarte's tubes dry out through the day and get brittle. That's where the flakes come from, and it's also why warm water alone never quite gets it off at night. Every micellar-and-cotton-pad session costs you a lash or two, and at 61 those are expensive. That's the whole reason GraceLash ended up at number one for me. The tube stays soft, so it never flakes and it lets go with just warm water. Do the test from the review. Tarte on one eye, GraceLash on the other, look in the mirror at noon and again at the sink that night. Can't see a difference? Send it back, you have 60 days. That's how I decided too.
I was a Thrive girl for SIX years. You nailed everything. Long lashes, sure, but my lash line still looked thin, just... stretched. And heaven forbid you try a second coat. I kept thinking it was just me getting older. It wasn't.
I'm 71. Gave up mascara entirely two years ago. Every night I was losing more lashes scrubbing it off. The cotton pad full of lashes broke something in me. Reading this gave me a tiny bit of hope. If I try GraceLash, how do I take it off without doing more damage? I can't lose any more.
Hi Margaret. This is exactly why I came back too. I thought I was done. Here's how it works. Warm water on a soft washcloth. Press it on your closed eyes for about 30 seconds. The little sleeves soften and slide off in one piece. You'll see them on the cloth as tiny black flecks. That's the tubes coming off, not your lashes. No scrubbing. No tugging. Your lashes stay where they belong. A year in and that part still feels like magic to me.
Honestly? I'm exhausted by every brand swearing it's THE one. I've heard it. Bought it. Thrown it away. What makes this any different from the last five that promised the same thing? Not trying to be rude. Just tired.
Hi Sandra. That's not rude, that's the whole reason I wrote this article. I was tired too. So don't believe me. Wear your current mascara on one eye and GraceLash on the other for one day, and let your own mirror decide at noon. If it loses, send it back within 60 days and you've spent nothing but a morning. That's the only pitch I've got, and it's the one that worked on me.
Most useful mascara article I've read in years. Thank you for not pretending to love everything. Half these "reviews" online are just five ways of saying buy it. You actually told us what's wrong with each one. Bookmarked.
I was worried about microplastics in tubing mascara. Read somewhere they're microplastics. Have you looked into this Susan? Trying to be more careful what I put on my body at our age. Otherwise the GraceLash review made it sound exactly like what I've been searching for.
Hi Sharon. Good question, this comes up a lot. Yes, tubing mascaras use polymers. That's how the formula wraps each lash in a sleeve. But polymer doesn't automatically mean microplastic. Polymers are just molecules that link together in chains. Honey contains polymers. Wool is made of polymers. Your own hair is a polymer. Microplastics are one specific synthetic type that breaks apart into tiny floating particles. The polymers in tubing mascara are not that. They come off as whole little sleeves in warm water. You can actually see them on the cloth. Not the same thing. I asked this same question before I tried it. Once I understood the difference, I stopped worrying.
I've curled my straight lashes since I was 13. Tried two tubing mascaras over the years and both straightened my curl by lunch. Does GraceLash actually hold a curl? Because every tubing mascara I've ever tried hasn't.
Hi Nancy. This was my biggest fear too. Thrive flattened my curl by lunch for years. The difference with GraceLash is the carnauba. Because the wax is so hard, a trace of it does the work of a heavy coat, so there's barely any wet weight pulling the curl down before it sets. Curl your lashes first, then two thin coats. Holds all day. I tested it through my daughter's wedding in Florida last June. June. Florida. Ceremony. It still held. The first tubing mascara that didn't kill my curl.
Susan, I've been reading you for three years. You're the only beauty person who doesn't treat us like we're 25. The other channels keep telling us to "glow." What does that even mean when your skin is what it is now? You actually get it.
$40 is a lot for me. I retired last year and I'm careful with money now. Is it really worth it over the drugstore options? That new Maybelline tubing one is $13 at my grocery store. I want to believe. But I've burned through enough cheap mascaras to be cautious about anything that costs triple.
Hi Donna. Totally hear you, and I tested that exact Maybelline for this article. It's #5 on the list. Clumps, flakes, and there's nothing in the formula for your lashes. It's $13 you spend twice, once on the tube and once on the replacement. Quick clarification on GraceLash too. With the buy-one-get-one offer on the site it's two tubes for $40, so about $20 per tube. Still more than drugstore, I won't pretend otherwise. But three cheap tubes you throw away is $45. One that works for less than that is just better math. And you have 60 days. Doesn't work for you, send it back. The risk is on them, not you.
Bought PrimeLash because of their Facebook ads. EXACTLY what you described. Sticky on the second coat. Spider legs by 2pm. Curl gone by lunch. And getting it OFF at night, don't get me started. The marketing IS great. The product was nothing. Glad I'm not the only one who fell for it.
Just turned 65. Wear contacts every day. Most mascaras have my eyes watering by noon, and the flaky ones are the worst, those bits end up right under the lens. Tempted to try GraceLash. Any other contact wearers here who've tried it?
You mentioned GraceLash has ingredients that "feed" your lashes. After everything I've read online about lash serums (sunken eyes, eye color changes, lashes falling out when you stop), I'm honestly terrified to put anything "growth" near my eyes. Can you tell me more about what's actually in this one?
Hi Deborah. Your fear makes sense. The scary side effects you're reading about come from prescription lash serums. GraceLash is NOT a lash serum. It's a tubing mascara with conditioners built in. A peptide, biotin, castor oil and Korean ginseng. The kind of things that feed your lashes a bit while you wear it, nothing hormonal, none of the heavy ingredients you're worried about. I've used it for almost a year. After about two months my lashes looked less starved than they had been. A bit more body. A bit darker at the root. I'm not going to pretend I ran a clinical study on my own face. But I noticed it. And I'm still using it.
Slight disagreement on Tarte. I get on with mine fine and I'm 67, the length really is lovely. But you're right about the removal, warm water alone never does it for me either, I always end up reaching for the micellar. Rest of the article was spot on. Ordered GraceLash after reading it, will report back.
Susan, what do you use on your lower lash line? Mine were always lighter than my uppers, but now they're basically invisible. I don't want to buy a second mascara if there's a simpler answer. Help?
Hi Joan. Great question, I get this one a lot. No second mascara needed. Same GraceLash tube, different amount. Wipe the wand on a tissue first so there's barely anything on it, then hold it vertically and touch just the tips of the lower lashes. A whisper, that's it. The small wand is why it works down there, it grabs the fine pale ones instead of gluing three together. And since the tube seals the lash instead of sitting wet on it, nothing prints onto the skin under your eye by 3pm, which is what always gave me away with regular mascara on my lowers.
Loved this mascara breakdown. Any chance you'd do the same for foundation next? I'm 66 and every one I try either settles into every line on my face or turns orange by lunch. I'm so sick of the trial and error. Would trust your picks over anyone's.
Hi Bonnie. Foundation is the #1 topic in my inbox right now. I'm halfway through testing 8 of them on myself, and on a few brave friends. Hopefully ready to share in the next few weeks. Hang tight.
Sending this to my sister. She's 68. We both used to love getting ready. We both gave up. Maybe this is the way back in for both of us. Thanks Susan.